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Having the fear of getting started with anything is very common and thus, its solution too is easily available. This post is the solution that you are looking for to get started with anything.
The first fear that anyone gets before doing any major (or minor) activity that you present in front of other people is the fear of “What Will Other People Think?”.
So, let’s talk about it.
One way to overcome this fear is by the NOC mindset which is the 'No One Cares' mindset. Everybody has got their own problems to care about and they don't have the time to think about us. Even if they do, they do it for just a second and get carried on with their own work and thoughts. Absolutely no one cares or bothers about you in this furious world where everybody has their own lives and thoughts, emotions, problems, etc.
The other way to approach this problem is kind of in the reverse way. I will start with a quote from David Foster Wallace, an American novelist, which says that:
"You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do."
-David Foster Wallace
It approaches the problem from the perspective of a person having deep self-realization.
Read this post to learn more about self-realization!
If you just think about the state of your own mind when someone does something stupid or some 'does not make any sense kinda thing', are you going to spend your day just raving about that person and thinking how stupid that person was? Absolutely not, right? I mean… I wouldn't do that. So, that is The Mindset that I want you to have i.e. absolutely no one cares about you, you are just another person to most people.
That is it guys that is what The Mindset is all about. It’s about thinking wisely and actively searching for the betterment of your life.
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